You can't turn around on a one way street.

Let's take it that one of you won. Then what? Do you even gain anything from winning?? One of you, doesn't want to give a shit about work anymore. You sleep till 2pm in the afternoon, then you get up and go on facebook, watch tv, then you go downstairs to eat packed lunch. Then you go back to sleep again and practically wake up at 6+, 7+ and chat with your lost found friends, totally ignoring this family. And this cycle just goes on. The other one, goes out early in the morning during the weekends, and doesn't come back till noon. Gone to find your parents I see? Fine then stay there and be their fillial son.

Maybe you don't mind eating packed lunches AND dinner, but we do. Practically for almost the whole year we've been eating packed food. Before the cold war started you still had the time to cook, even when you were working. What about now? You just eat, sleep, then eat and sleep again. Well, you're not the only one that's very troubled or devastated. Everyone's worrying about you. Have you ever spared a thought for 婆婆，WHO WORRIES ABOUT YOU DAY AND NIGHT AND SOMETIMES CAN'T EVEN SLEEP?! OH WOW AND YOU TELL HER YOU'LL SETTLE YOUR OWN PROBLEMS. But in the end both of you just don't want to give in, because of all the face and pride. Well fine then, go on being like this, let this whole family fall apart. How many times have I cried over this? How many times has 婆婆 cried over this? I don't know if you 2 want to do anything about this all, but I've said my piece. I know you read my blog mummy.